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Psychological Therapy for Chronic Pain

Why Psychological Therapy Helps with Chronic Pain

Why Psychological Therapy Helps with Chronic Pain

Why Psychological Therapy Helps with Chronic Pain

  Chronic pain — pain that lasts more than three months — is not simply a physical problem. Research consistently shows that the brain, nervous system, thoughts, emotions, sleep, and past experience all play a role in how pain is processed and how much it affects your life.

This is not the same as saying pain is 'all in your mind'. It is n

  Chronic pain — pain that lasts more than three months — is not simply a physical problem. Research consistently shows that the brain, nervous system, thoughts, emotions, sleep, and past experience all play a role in how pain is processed and how much it affects your life.

This is not the same as saying pain is 'all in your mind'. It is not. But it does mean that psychological therapy, delivered by someone who truly understands pain, can make a meaningful and lasting difference — even when medical treatments have reached their limits.

The approach I use is called the biopsychosocial model. It treats pain as a whole-person experience, not just a physical symptom. Therapy helps you reduce the suffering that pain causes, rebuild your life around it, and — in many cases — reduce pain itself.

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Understanding Pain From the Inside

Why Psychological Therapy Helps with Chronic Pain

Why Psychological Therapy Helps with Chronic Pain

I live with chronic migraine. I know what it is to manage a pain condition that is invisible to others, that disrupts plans, that is misunderstood by people around you, and that requires constant psychological as well as physical adjustment.

That lived experience sits alongside my clinical training — it is not a replacement for it, but it 

I live with chronic migraine. I know what it is to manage a pain condition that is invisible to others, that disrupts plans, that is misunderstood by people around you, and that requires constant psychological as well as physical adjustment.

That lived experience sits alongside my clinical training — it is not a replacement for it, but it shapes how I listen, how I formulate, and how I work. When you tell me what life with pain is really like, I understand more than most clinicians can.

I also know that living well with chronic pain is genuinely possible. Not pretending it does not exist — but building a full, meaningful life that is not defined or limited by it. That is what I aim to help you do.

  

You do not need a GP referral or a formal diagnosis to access therapy. Please contact me directly if you are not sure whether my service is right for you — I am happy to have a brief initial conversation before you commit to an appointment. I work face-to-face, online or a mix of the two for easier convenience.


 

Therapeutic Models of How I work

Why Psychological Therapy Helps with Chronic Pain

Therapeutic Models of How I work

 I offer individual one-to-one psychological therapy for adults with chronic pain, using evidence-based approaches developed specifically for persistent pain:

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for Chronic Pain

ACT helps you change your relationship with pain — reducing the struggle against it and building a life guided by your values,

 I offer individual one-to-one psychological therapy for adults with chronic pain, using evidence-based approaches developed specifically for persistent pain:

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for Chronic Pain

ACT helps you change your relationship with pain — reducing the struggle against it and building a life guided by your values, not limited by your symptoms. It is one of the most robustly evidenced approaches for persistent pain.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Pain (Pain-CBT)

Pain-CBT addresses thoughts, feelings and behaviours that can amplify pain and disability — including fear-avoidance, pain catastrophising, and unhelpful activity patterns such as boom-and-bust cycles.

Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT)

Many people with chronic pain develop harsh self-criticism about what they can no longer do, or feel shame about needing help. CFT builds self-compassion as a foundation for managing pain more effectively.

Mindfulness-Based Approaches

I am an accredited Mindfulness teacher and integrate mindfulness and meditation practice throughout my work if that is something you are interested in. 

Who I work With

I work with adults in Surrey and online across the UK

Chronic and Persistent Pain

This is my specialist area. I work with adults living with a wide range of chronic pain conditions, including:

• Fibromyalgia and widespread pain

• Musculoskeletal and back pain

• Chronic migraine and headache disorders

• Post-surgical or post-injury pain

• Medically unexplained symptoms and functional pain

• Pain co-occurring with anxiety, depression, or trauma

• Long-term conditions such as arthritis, MS, EDS and CRPS

Appointments

  

I offer face-to-face sessions from my garden office in Merstham, Surrey (RH1), and online sessions via Zoom video platform. Sessions are available on weekdays, Tuesday through Thursday 9am-3pm.


Sessions are 50 minutes and cost £140. I am also a registered BUPA provider.

I typically offer an initial assessment appointment within 2 weeks of your initial contact depending on my availability at that time. Most clients begin with a block of 8–16 sessions, though this is always tailored to your needs.


Ready to take the first step? Contact me for an initial appointment or a brief no-obligation call to discuss whether therapy is right for you.



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  "People often arrive having been told by doctors that there is nothing more they can do. That is rarely the whole picture. Psychological therapy can change your relationship with pain in ways that genuinely improve quality of life." — Dr Kelly Jones

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